Lighting a Candle for Loved Ones: Honoring Family in Your NZ Wedding

Why Do Wedding Guests Sit on Certain Sides?

Ever wondered why the bride’s family traditionally sits on the left and the groom’s on the right? While it’s a long-standing custom, there’s a more thoughtful way to arrange seating—one that lets your loved ones fully experience the moment.

A More Meaningful Approach

Instead of following tradition, consider seating families on the opposite side to the couple. This way, parents and close family can see your faces during the ceremony, rather than just the backs of your heads.

Imagine the joy on their faces as they watch you exchange vows!

Modern Twists for a More Personal Touch

• Blend families seamlessly: If you have step-parents or extended family, seat them together in a way that feels natural.
• Make it fun: A sign that says, “Pick a seat, not a side—we’re all family today!” sets the tone for a warm, inclusive atmosphere.

Key Takeaways

• Communicate your seating plan with ushers to ensure a smooth experience.
• Consider sightlines for guests, photography, and videography.
• Most importantly—do what feels right for your wedding!

At the end of the day, it’s about love, connection, and making sure your VIPs feel included in this once-in-a-lifetime moment. 💛

Want a photographer who knows how to capture those front-row reactions? Reach out today—let’s turn your ceremony into a visual love story.